| Doulas
attend Women and Families with Awareness The
word, "doula," comes from the Greek word for the most important female
servant in an ancient Greek household; the woman who most likely supported the
lady of the house through her births. The word has come to refer to "a
woman experienced in childbirth who provides continuous physical, emotional, and
informational support to the mother before, during, and just after childbirth."(Klaus,
Kennel and Klaus, Mothering the Mother)
After
many years and experience as a doula and birth educator, I have found that the
meaning of "doula" for me encompasses honoring birth as a life transition
for the entire family as well as the mother. While the mother embodies the physical
and emotional depths of birth, her partner and baby's siblings also need support to
honor their own experience of bringing a new life into the family.
A
doula is someone who: - Hold's
the space of birth; keeping a sense of safety, privacy and security for the mother
to birth using her innate birthing wisdom and for the couple to feel safe to be
with one another however they choose to bring their baby into the world.
- Provides
a constant presence of trust in the natural unfolding of birth.
- Encourages
the natural, normal, instinctual rhythms of birth
- Recognizes
birth as a major life transition. Birth is an event that effects our thoughts on being
mothers and how we identify ourselves within the family unit and the greater community.
- Offers emotional,
physical as well as informational support to the family throughout pregnancy,
birth and early postpartum.
- Assists
mothers and partners in making informed decisions during pregnancy and birth by
providing information or pointing to available resources.
- Helps
partners understand the normalcy of birth and how to support the birthing mother in
whatever way is comfortable.
- Empower's
the mother and the couple to know their patient rights and to trust in their individual ability to birth how they choose.
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